Resources

• Learning Good Consent: The zine that started it all for me.
   

• Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent: Videos of Betty Martin's  Wheel of Consent, a model I use with clients to ask for what they want. 
   

• Un-memorizing the "Silence Is Sexy" Date Script: Blog post about the cultural norms of communication during sex, and learning how to check in. 
   

• Sinclair's Guide to Consensual Topping: How to use consent and also be assertive or dominant. Sinclair Sexsmith has my favorite advice on this topic. (Also their blog is filled with excellent content in queer identity, kink, embodiment, rough play, and smut smut smut.)
   

• Scarleteen: Driver's Ed for the Sexual Superhighway: Navigating Consent: Sex education website for teens. The basics of practicing consent including definitions, guidelines, possible scripts and words to use.
   

• Teaching Kids Consent: Ideas and guidelines for teaching consent to children of any age, 1-21.

 

 

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